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One of the major concerns of having sexual contact is the threat of sexually
transmitted diseases ("STD's"). In women over the age of thirty, the most often
seen STDs are Chlamydia, Genital Herpes
and Human Papillomavirus ("HPV"). STDs are most prevalent
among teenagers and young adults who account for two-thirds of all STDs, but
everyone is at risk except for those who are in monogamous relationships.
Routine testing is suggested for those who have sex with more than one partner
or upon changing sex partners.
Anyone who is sexually active should do the following to
prevent obtaining and transmitting an STD.
Have
regular checkups even in the absence of symptoms
Educate
yourself about the different types of testing done for each STD
Learn
the common symptoms
Avoid
anal intercourse
Avoid
douching as it removes the normal protective bacteria from your vagina
Chlamydia
This infection is caused by bacteria and is now the most common of all
bacterial STDs. The symptoms in both men and women are an abnormal genital
discharge and burning upon urination. This STD is known to show NO symptoms in
many women and an untreated infection may lead the Pelvic Inflammatory Disease,
one of the leading causes of infertility and ectopic pregnancy. This is why you
should be regularly tested upon changing sex partners. Once diagnosed, an
antibiotic will be prescribed by your health care professional.
Genital Herpes
Genital Herpes affects over 60 million Americans with over 500,000 new cases
annually. Another statistic we found estimated 25 percent of adults in the
United States have genital herpes and that most don’t know it because their
symptoms are too mild to notice. Herpes is caused by the Herpes Simplex Virus
("HSV"). The symptoms in both men and women are blisters and open sores in the
genital area. The blisters and sores last for approximately two to three weeks
but the virus remains in the body for life. Outbreaks of sores may recur from
time to time. Having sexual contact, either oral or genital, with someone who
is in the middle of an outbreak spreads the virus. Sharing a vibrator or dildo
can also spread herpes but you would have to be actively sharing, as the virus
cannot live outside of the body for long. Did you know oral sex with some one
who has a cold sore could also cause a transfer of the virus to the genital
area. Herpes can be treated with antiviral medication that may ease the
severity of the outbreaks, but will not eradicate the virus. To find out more
about types of testing conducted for Herpes and other helpful information
click here.
Genital Warts
Genital Warts are caused by the Human Papillomavirus ("HPV") which is a
relative of the virus that causes common skin warts. The warts usually appear
as small hard painless bumps in the vaginal area, on the penis, or around the
anus. They will grow if left untreated and become fleshy and cauliflower like
in appearance. Genital warts are removed by a topical drug or by freezing.
Certain high-risk types of HPV not only cause genital warts but also cause
cervical cancer. Once diagnosed and treated for genital warts it is important
for women to have regular pap smears.
Everything You Need to Know About Pap Smears
Pap smears consist of cells removed from the cervix which are specially
prepared for microscopic examination. A gynecologist or other health care
provider removes the cells by brushing or scraping the cervix during a pelvic
examination. The removed cells are evenly spread on one or more glass slides.
Each slide typically contains hundreds of thousand of cells. All Pap smears
should be sent to an accredited laboratory to be stained, examined under a
microscope, and interpreted.
More recently there is another method for obtaining pap smears. The method of
scraping is the same, but instead of spreading the scraping from the cervix
immediately on a glass slide the swab is placed into a liquid which suspends
the debris and cells. The container is then centrifuged (Spun so that the
heavier matter settles at the bottom) and the cells are then separated from any
mucous or other matter found on the swab and then placed on a slide for
reading. This procedure may be more accurate as it isolates the cells from
other vaginal material.
There are certain things that a woman can do to ensure that she gets the most
accurate Pap smear available. Remember the Pap smear is taking cells from your
cervix on the inside of your vagina, so any foreign substances can make your
pap smear inaccurate. You should always try and schedule your pap smear for two
weeks after the first day of your last menstrual period. Pap smears should not
be scheduled during your menstrual period. Do not use any vaginal medications,
creams, contraceptives, douches or lubricants for at least 72 hours prior to
your exam. Do not have sexual intercourse or masturbate for at least 24 hours
prior to your exam. Always make sure that your pap smear is being sent to an
accredited laboratory and remember to follow-up with your health care provider.
Libido - Yours, Mine and Ours
Libido, or lack of it can be one of the major stresses in a relationship or
marriage. But what causes a lack of sex drive when everything else in the
relationship is working? There are two different major types of causes of lack
of libido, physical and psychological.
The major physical causes for decreased libido, or lack of sex drive in women
specifically are as follows:
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Hormonal imbalances caused by the natural ebb and flow of our monthly cycles
with generally the lowest sex drive coming just before our period and the
highest during ovulation.
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The aging process itself decreases the amounts of hormones that are cycling
through our bodies and we have less of the three major hormones progesterone,
estrogen and testosterone that affect our libido.
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Atrophic Vaginitus, which is changes in the vaginal tissue, caused by the aging
process and is characterized by vaginal dryness that leads to painful sex. The
pain of sex itself is what causes the lack of sex drive and can be alleviated
with the use of a good lubricant such as
Eros for Women.
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Women in there thirties and forties suffer from fatigue due to the demands of
childrearing and fatigue is a major cause of lack of sex drive for women.
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Some medications can have the side effect of lowering your sex drive. In
particular, high blood pressure medications and antidepressants are known to
affect libido.
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Hypo-Thyroidism which is when your thyroid gland is not producing enough
hormones, can cause lack of libido and exhaustion among other symptoms.
The Major Psychological Causes for Decreased Libido
Marital
issues. Disharmony in a relationship or marriage can cause a lack of wanting to
be intimate.
Unfortunately, sometimes being intimate is just what the relationship needs.
Issues
with family such as teenagers, children and parents.
Depression
Anxiety
Premenstrual Syndrome(PMS)
The majority of women are familiar with the term PMS. Premenstrual Syndrome
(PMS) is a complex of symptoms that occur with greatest severity 5-11 days
prior to the onset of your menstrual period. In most cases, the symptoms abate
within 1-2 days of the onset of the period. The incidence of PMS is reported to
be between 20-90% of women, with only about 20% having symptoms severe enough
to limit daily functioning. PMS occurs most frequently in women between the
ages of 30-40 years. Symptoms of PMS include the following:
Irritability
Depression
Crying Spells |
Mood
Swings
Sleep Disturbance
Appetite Changes
Changes in Libido |
Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder (PMDD) differs from PMS in that
symptoms markedly impair one's ability to work or attend school, or conduct
usual social activities. This disorder requires medical attention from a
psychiatric specialist. If you feel that your symptoms are severe, you should
be evaluated accordingly.
Treatment of PMS is aimed at reduction of symptoms. Conservative approaches
include the following:
Stress Reduction: relaxation exercises,
biofeedback, and reflexology
Symptom Diary: monitoring daily symptoms help to
obtain a degree of control and allow one to avoid making major decisions when
symptoms are worse.
Diet: well-balanced diet, rich in fruits and
vegetables and whole grains; a trial of caffeine elimination to determine if
symptoms are alleviated is warranted.
Vitamin Supplementation: many supplements are on
the market that promote PMS relief. See your healthcare provider for more
information. Supplements have been shown in studies to reduce PMS symptoms.
Herbal and other therapies: notify your
healthcare provider if you are taking herbs to relieve your symptoms; discuss
this openly to prevent interactions with current medications that you may be
using. Above all, discuss this issue openly with your healthcare provider.

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