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Q: My
Boyfriend and I Have Great Sex...
My boyfriend and I have great
sex, but I really want to try some more freaky activities like playing with some
toys. I have a vibrator, but I'm afraid if I pull it out during sex he'll think
he's not satisfying me, or worse—that I'm a pervert. How can I introduce
him to my buzzy little friend and make it a totally hot scene, not a totally embarrassing
one?—Ready for Fun
A: Dear
Ready for Fun
You may be surprised—most men find an adventurous
woman to be a great turn-on. Still, if you're really concerned that he'll feel
insecure, try it out on him first. If you have a massager-style vibrator like
the Hitachi Magic Wand, you can
give him a sensual massage and use it on his back and shoulders, slowly working
your way down to his legs and thighs, moving toward his inner thighs. You probably
don't want to put your vibrator on his balls, since they are usually a bit too
sensitive for that, but you can work your way around and try brief, teasing contacts
with his penis. Ask him if he likes it. Most likely, he'll say yes, and he'll
offer to reciprocate…if not, gently put it in his hands and point it at your
hot spot. He'll get the idea. If he likes your "totally hot scene",
tell him to help you pick out the next toy at Lady Bliss! |
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Q: My
Husband and I Have Been Married for 14 Years...
My husband and
I have been married for 14 years, and we rarely have time for any sex, let alone
great sex. I love him very much, but we really could use some spice in the ol'
bedroom. By the time the kids are in bed, we don't have much imagination or energy.
Help! —Too Pooped to Party
A:
Dear Party Pooper
You need to set some priorities
for yourself and your husband. After all, you're going to be with him long after
the kids are gone. The easiest way to accomplish this is to actually schedule
a hot date. Set it in both of your schedules at least a week in advance. Send
the kids to Grandma's for the evening, or get a baby sitter. Then, each day before
the date, tell him a different sexy thing that you'd like to do with him. Whisper
it to him on his way out the door, or tuck a note in his pocket. By the time your
date rolls around, you'll both be ready! Start the night out with a massage (we
have some great-smelling massage oils
for you to try), and then let the fun begin.
Schedule at least one
date night per month. Trust me, it's doable! Even if you just schedule a "quickie"
on your lunch hours, you can find a way to make it happen. And the change you'll
see in your marriage will be worth it. | |
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