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Q:
My Boyfriend and I Have Great
Sex...
My boyfriend and I have great sex, but I really want
to try some more freaky activities like playing with
some toys. I have a vibrator, but I'm afraid if I pull
it out during sex he'll think he's not satisfying me,
or worse—that I'm a pervert. How can I introduce
him to my buzzy little friend and make it a totally
hot scene, not a totally embarrassing one?—Ready
for Fun
A: Dear
Ready for Fun
You may be surprised—most men find an adventurous
woman to be a great turn-on. Still, if you're really
concerned that he'll feel insecure, try it out on him
first. If you have a massager-style vibrator like the
Hitachi Magic Wand, you can give him a sensual massage
and use it on his back and shoulders, slowly working
your way down to his legs and thighs, moving toward
his inner thighs. You probably don't want to put your
vibrator on his balls, since they are usually a bit
too sensitive for that, but you can work your way around
and try brief, teasing contacts with his penis. Ask
him if he likes it. Most likely, he'll say yes, and
he'll offer to reciprocate…if not, gently put it
in his hands and point it at your hot spot. He'll get
the idea. If he likes your "totally hot scene",
tell him to help you pick out the next toy at Lady Bliss! |
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Q:
My Husband and I Have Been Married
for 14 Years...
My husband and I have been married for 14 years,
and we rarely have time for any sex, let alone great
sex. I love him very much, but we really could use some
spice in the ol' bedroom. By the time the kids are in
bed, we don't have much imagination or energy. Help!
—Too Pooped to Party
A: Dear
Party Pooper
You need to set some priorities for yourself and your
husband. After all, you're going to be with him long
after the kids are gone. The easiest way to accomplish
this is to actually schedule a hot date. Set it in both
of your schedules at least a week in advance. Send the
kids to Grandma's for the evening, or get a baby sitter.
Then, each day before the date, tell him a different
sexy thing that you'd like to do with him. Whisper it
to him on his way out the door, or tuck a note in his
pocket. By the time your date rolls around, you'll both
be ready! Start the night out with a massage (we have
some great-smelling massage
oils for you to try), and then let the fun begin.
Schedule at least one date night per month. Trust me, it's doable! Even if you just schedule a "quickie" on your lunch hours, you can find a way to make it happen. And the change you'll see in your marriage will be worth it.
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